Tag Archive for Cambodian Girls

Beautiful Cambodian Girls: They’re Everywhere!

Beautiful Cambodian girl smiling

Beautiful Cambodian Girl Posing

This post examines some of the reasons that Phnom Penh is home to so many beautiful Cambodian girls.  Just being here is a feast for the eyes with slim, raven haired beauties almost everywhere you look.  It seems uncanny that there should be such a high proportion of beautiful Cambodian girls here, but there is.  Find out why Phnom Penh’s gene pool is possibly richer than it has ever been in the city’s history.  We’ll also talk about how these girls stay so slim, and lastly, why they are so visible around Phnom Penh.

Where do Beautiful Cambodian Girls Get Their Genes?

Cambodia is home to a very healthy and varied genetic pool.  Some anthropologists maintain that good looks are nature’s way to advertising good genes and a healthy person, and they believe that the deeper the gene pool, the more likely people are to be attractive.  Click here to read more about this.  So exactly what sort of genetic make up do these beautiful Cambodian girls have and how did it come about?

Beautiful Cambodian Girl with a handbag

Cambodian girl with a handbag.

The story begins more than 1000 years ago.  Ships from India and China would often land in Cambodia to trade.  One account in a Chinese text of the time stated that the sailors would often not return to the ship, opting to stay in Cambodia due to the common practice of the locals living without clothes, and the ease with which one could have relations with the local girls.  Today, it is still possible to see the uniqueness of the Cambodian features compared to Thai, Laotian, or Vietnamese.  Some Khmers have darker skin and rounder eyes.  This is likely due to the Indian traits that were brought over from the subcontinent on trading missions.  The Indians were able to navigate all the way up to the Lao border where there is a waterfall blocking further navigation upstream on the Mekong/Tonle Sap river system, thus accounting for the physical differences between the Lao and Cambodian people, as the Lao people would have had limited contact with Indians, thus accounting for the spread of whatever genes the traders brought to the limits of the river system they were able to navigate.  More recently, in the 1980s, Vietnamese, and Chinese immigration brought professionals and business people to Cambodia.  There are now many shops in Phnom Penh run by Chinese, and it is not uncommon to find Cambodian girls who speak fluent Chinese.  The Vietnamese came over to fill the spots of the professionals who perished under the Khmer Rouge regime.  Many of today’s doctors, dentists, lawyers, and other professionals came to Phnom Penh to set up businesses and intermarried with local Cambodians, adding depth to the gene pool, and thereby increasing the number of beautiful Cambodian girls in Phnom Penh.

Beautiful Cambodian girl on a bed

This Cambodian girl is from Battembang. She does not have typical Cambodian features.

There are also Thai genes here as well.  Throughout the history of the Khmer Empire, the Thais invaded, eventually causing the Khmer Empire to collapse.  Today, many Khmers live in Eastern Thailand, some of whom intermarried with Thais and returned to live in Phnom Penh.   The Thai border camps for refugees during the civil war may have also facilitated some marriages to Thais.

Possibly the most influential factor was mass migration of people to Phnom Penh in the 1980s.  The Khmer Rouge forced the evacuation of Phnom Penh in 1975 and the city was all but abandoned until people began to return in 1979.  People from all over Cambodia, and some from other Asian nations, repopulated the city.  This migration of people back to Phnom Penh caused it to become a genetic melting pot, as people established themselves and intermarried.  It was an unprecedented mixing of genes producing a ecletic mix of physical features.  Many beautiful Cambodian girls were born during this period.

Eating Habits

Western girls love to eat.  Girls in Cambodia are’t that much different.  The difference is three things: the culture, the foods available, and the traditional methods on Cambodian farms.

First off, the culture.  It is not lady-like for a Cambodian lady to eat a lot or constantly snack.  When they do snack, it is usually on fruits, which are available year round.  You’ll rarely, if ever, see a beautiful Cambodian girl snarfing down a bag of Doritos or munching on a box of donuts.  Those things are much more expensive than the fruit.  Finances help people make their snacking decisions.

Another important cultural aspect is the food available.  It is one of the few countries in which McDonalds does not operate.  KFC is here, but they are still relatively new having opened their first store only a few years ago.  People are not in the habit of going through a drive through on their way out to work.

Additionally, lots of children grew up in poverty, and, unfortunately, they had a limited amount of food available to them.  While this is not a good state of affairs, it did ensured that children did not develop bad eating habits.  These eating habits carried on into adolescence and the people stayed thin.  A thin Cambodian girl is much more likely to be a beautiful Cambodian girl.

Beautiful Cambodian girls dress up for weddings

Beautiful Cambodian girl at a wedding dinner.

The practices on Cambodian farms are also an important factor that helps beautiful Cambodian girls stay slim, and, despite their distance from the capital, they still have an effect in Phnom Penh. For those who worry about growth hormones in meat and dairy at home in the west, you can rest easy knowing that these practices exist on a far small scale in Cambodia.  More of the meat comes from farms where they do not have enough money to buy such hormones for their livestock.  In addition to this, dairy is not a part of the Khmer diet.  The scraggly cattle here were not bred to produce milk and Cambodians are not in the habit of drinking it.  Of course, without milk, dairy products are uncommon in Cambodian culture.  Some Westerners may find it strange that many Cambodian people find cheese unpleasant (Yet they will eat fermented fish paste, finding it delicious).  Imagine how many calories could be cut out a Western diet if cheese was not an option on sandwiches and burgers.

Cambodian Girls Love Makeup

Beautiful Cambodian girls like to wear contacts

Beautiful Cambodian girl with her contacts in.

Western girls spend hours trying get tans and applying foundation to get just the right skin tone.  Oddly enough, Cambodians do just the opposite and avoid the sun at all costs trying to stay as light as possible.  Fortunately for these girls, their natural complexions are perfectly set to accent their delicate features with just a little black eye makeup.

Contact lenses that make the iris of the eye appear larger than normal are also popular with girls who have money to spend.

Ladies of all ages also wear outrageous eyelashes as well when they get dressed up for wedding parties.

Why You See Beautiful Cambodian Girls Everywhere

A few reasons beautiful girls are visible here…

- In the west, the higher standard of living allows most people to have a car.  You may catch a glimpse of some pretty girls zooming around at the wheel, or get a better look at them if you are stuck in a traffic jam.

- In Cambodia girls ride motos.  Cars are for well off people.  They drive slowly and are easy to see.  They go out in the evenings to just walk around the few green areas in Phnom Penh such as riverside, Vietnamese Friendship Park, or Hun Sen Park.  So girls are concentrated into small spaces.  Especially Sorya shopping mall!

- Girls here are much more conscious of their appearance than in most places in the west.  Heels, dresses, makeup and skirts are essential items.  The plethora of makeup salons is tribute to the value Cambodian girls place on beauty.

- Cambodia is a patriarchal society.  Although women can, and do, work in professional jobs such as design, accounting, management, and other such respected positions, traditionally married women stay home and husbands work to earn money for the family.  Beautiful Cambodian girls attract the attention of the well paid men and marry better as a result so they make sure they look the best they can.

What does the future hold?  

Beautiful Cambodian girls - percentage of the population

In 2015 5.2% of the population will be girls ages 20-24.

The future looks good for those with an interest in beautiful Cambodian girls.  One look at a population pyramid shows us that girls ages 20-24 will make up 5.2% of the population in 2015, and that they are the largest age bracket in the pyramid.  What does all that mean?  Well, for the next few years, girls in their early twenties will make up more of the population than any other age group.

So, seize the day and enjoy the sights of some beautiful Cambodian girls in Phnom Penh, the timing has never been better ;)

Click here to see more pictures of beautiful Cambodian girls.

 

Do you enjoy our site?  Paypal donations from generous readers like you help keep this site up and running.  
`







Write your comment within 199 characters.

`
No space to comment on this post?
Click here to comment, and read comments, about beautiful Cambodian girls. 

 

Professional Girlfriends in Cambodia

Smiling Cambodian Girl

Smiling Cambodian Bar Girl

Professional girlfriends in Cambodia are potentially any girl working in the “female hostess” line of work.  These include girls at hostess bars, beer servers, freelance girls, beer garden hostesses, and karaoke hostesses.  These professions are not the most highly regarded work a girl can do.  Sometimes they meet clients and become their girlfriends, but when this happens there is likely some monetary motivation involved.  This cash transaction can take many forms.  They range from girls dating guys who regularly buy gifts for them and possibly for their families as well (does not sound too strange does it?), to an arrangement for a live-in girlfriend who will cook, clean and have sex with you in return for a monthly allowance.

Propositions From Professional Girlfriends in Cambodia

A male foreign friend was recently propositioned by a girl who offered to live with him as his girlfriend, and do what would be expected of a girlfriend,  in return for $400 a month.  To put the price in perspective, working at a bar, a girl can earn a salary of $50 – $80 a month.  Tips and drinks augment that salary.  Going with customers for sex can further augment her income, but as seems logical, going to hotels with strange men is risky at best.  Professional girlfriends in Cambodia can charge only a few hundred dollars a month and earn more money than they would at the bar, and reduce the risk they might otherwise take if they were to earn money by having sex with numerous customers.

Good or Bad?

This seems like a logical arrangement for professional girlfriends in Cambodia, but there are further added bonuses for the girls.  Depending on the commitment of the relationship, she may be able to have more than one boyfriend.  These boyfriends may not even be in the country, and they may be sending money from over seas each month.  Or, she may work for a few part time local boyfriends if the arrangements permit her to do so.  This allows girls the possibility of focusing their efforts on a few guys (whose company they hopefully enjoy) and making more money, staying safer, and avoiding the long hours and seven day work weeks that are part and parcel with working in a bar.

For the girls, it gets better still.  It may work out that one of the relationships she is engaged in ends up with her marrying a foreign guy.  If so, she’s just won the proverbial pro-girlfriend jackpot!  Obviously the guy is happy too and one of the professional girlfriends in Cambodia is finally able to retire.  Phew!

Perhaps this all sounds too good to be true?  Remember, prices vary, and the whole arrangement is up for negotiation.  If you fancy such a girl, make an offer at a bar and see what she says.  If communication is difficult, get a translator (usually another bar girl) and talk money if you really want to speak her language.  But before rushing out to your local travel agent to be on the next plane to Phnom Penh, there is further reading to be done with much more detail that was provided in this post.

Further Reading

This topic is not only one of interest to guys who are looking for a sweetheart Cambodian girlfriend.  Heidi Hoefinger, who earned her PhD from Goldsmiths, University of London, has has collected data on the topic for seven years and her work on professional girlfriends in Cambodia appeared in the South East Asia Globe as their cover story in February 2012.  This article contains a wealth of information on the topic and it is only a few pages long with some interesting pictures.  Click here to view the article.  Heidi’s work on professional girlfriends in Cambodia is also of interest to the academic community.  She will be publishing her dissertation, due to be released in 2013.  It will no doubt be an interesting read and possibly the only academic study that is in support of the women working as professional girlfriends in Cambodia.  Click here to see a synopsis of Heidi Hoefinger’s dissertation.

Do you enjoy our site?  Paypal donations from generous readers like you help keep this site up and running.  
`







Write your comment within 199 characters.

`
No space to comment on this post?
Click here to comment, and read comments, about professional girlfriends in Cambodia
.

 

Strategies to Deal With Phnom Penh Bar Girls

Cambodian Girl Posing for Picture

Phnom Penh bar girls come in all shapes and sizes (short and slim is the most common by far though) and they all have their own game.  Knowing it can ensure maximum fun for you, and, hopefully, this comes about by showing the girl you fancy a good time too.  This post will briefly go over five common types of Phnom Penh bar girls you are likely to encounter in hostess barsfreelancer joints, and discos.

Phnom Penh Bar Girl #1 – The Newbie

Description - These girls may not only be new to this line of work, they are possibly new to Phnom Penh too.  They could be from some village or provincial capital and probably have no English.  They learn the basics quickly enough though.  Most often found in hostess bars because some hostess bars actively recruit young new girls by offering jobs to girls working in garment factories offering a job sitting in a bar with tips and higher pay instead of sitting long hours in a hot factory sewing.  They also recruit passively by allowing girls employed at the bar to bring their friends to work based on word of mouth.

Strategies - These girls are often shy, so getting to them first is a good idea.   They may get a kick out of hearing a foreigner try to speak some Khmer with them, so bring your dictionary and give it a try.  You may end up with a free Khmer lesson in the process.  Chatting with the other girls in the bar and getting them to like you helps too.  Visit a few times before attempting to barfine to gain her confidence.  It is entirely possible that such girls are just “working for the salary and tips” and are in fact non-barfinable.  They want to keep their future prospects or marriage open, and uphold their family’s reputation so they choose to remain virgins.  If this is the case, respect her wishes.  Their are lots of other fish in the sea of Phnom Penh bar girls.

Phnom Penh Bar Girl #2 – The Party Girl

Description - These girls genuinely like partying at discos and is akin to party girls who work all week and party all weekend in the west.  Think of them like promiscuous party girls at discos back home who go out to pick up a guy to have a one night stand, but with a few important differences.  She may or may not have day job, she may just go with a customer to finance the cost of partying.

Strategies - Have fun with her and take part in the disco activities.  Drink, dance, and be merry.  It will make a good impression, but, like party girls in western countries she may be selective.  One way to check if you are in is to buy her a drink, if she doesn’t disappear with it once you’ve paid, you’re in. If you take her early in the evening offer to go to a guesthouse nearby, she’ll probably want to go back to the disco afterwards.  Where can one find these girls?  PontoonRiverhouse, and Heart of Darkness are three nice enough discos where party girls looking for foreigners can be found Phnom Penh.  Look for them on the dance floor.

Phnom Penh Bar Girl #3 – The “Ice Head”

Description - Phnom Penh bar girls work long hours.  Some of them use methamphetamine, or ice as it is known locally.  It is either a social recreational habit, or something to “take the edge off” when she does a job she doesn’t enjoy, or else it is a way for her to stay awake all night.  Ice has the side effect of suppressing appetite and being addictive.  The easiest way to spot a girl with an ice habit is the fact that she appears underweight.  Not only because she’s got no appetite, she may simply choose to spend her money on ice instead of food.  Some girls, on some occasions, can be a bit unpredictable and crazy for obvious reasons.

Strategies - These girls are keen to get customers and are easy to meet.  If they are high, it may or may not be obvious.  But if they are, they are less inhibited both in public and in private as a result.  Some guys may like their Phnom Penh bar girls uninhibited, but if you decide to take her someplace to be alone, keep an eye on your wallet.  Some of these girls have sticky fingers.  As far as other activities, the decent thing to do is to offer to buy them some food.  Ask to go with them to whatever snack stall is nearby and see what’s on offer to make sure your money gets her a few extra calories.

Phnom Penh Bar Girl #4 - Waiting for the big score

Waiting to go into Heart of Darkness

Description - These girls are looking for relatively few customers who can afford to pay more. Usually they are very beautiful girls, and they know it.  Often very well dressed, graceful, and in high heels in the evenings, they can be found in a variety of places including hostess bars, freelancer hangouts, and discos.  They are good with make up, have better than average taste in clothes, and have cultivated the poise to pull them off.  Big score girls are usually quite pleasant, and friendly and more often than not they are on their own.  When they find their “big score”, they don’t want competition around in the form of an attractive girlfriend looking for the same thing.  Ultimately, such attractive girls are looking for a western husband with a steady income.  Assuming they have what was mentioned above, they will often be successful and leave the scene of Phnom Penh bar girls once and for all.

Strategies - These girls are, by the nature of their game, more selective.  They will be looking for guys with money, or attractive, younger guys.  So, you can try to play up one of these strengths when chatting with her.  The big score girls may be impressive in the evenings after spending an hour or so in a beauty salon getting dolled up, but in the day time, without makeup, a girl can look quite average compared her nighttime alter ego.  If you are short on cash, offer to take her to lunch the next day, or just meet up.  Big paying customers are evening fare for her, so you may be able to get a better price if you plan to take her somewhere more intimate in the day since it will be during her off peak hours when she’s not gone through the trouble of making herself up.  Going with a customer generally spoils her makeup.

Alternatively, you may just wish to be the one to spoil her makeup.  If so, when you meet such a girl in the evening just offer to pay her asking price.  Hopefully by doing this you can enjoy your evening with her as she will be in a happy mood knowing that she will be getting the financial compensation she wants.  Being straight forward and asking in the bar is perfectly fine.  She may be looking for $40 -$60 for a short time, possibly even more.  These girls tend to have regular customers whose company they enjoy and that can afford them.  By waiting for the right guy, she’ll earn with one customer what other girls earn with two or three.  Which brings us to our final type of bar girl discussed in this post…

Phnom Penh Bar Girl #5 - Taking all punters

Description - This type is your hardworking, salt of the earth bar girl.  They will sometimes approach potential customers in their venue and maximize their earnings by sheer volume.  Charming talkers, young girls, and pretty girls can find two, three or more customers in a night by going with them for a short time, then returning to the bar.  They may even head to another spot to look for their next customer if you have freed them for the evening by paying their bar fine.  Girls who are not well endowed with ways to attract guys may sit around all night, hoping for several customers but finding none.

Strategies - The only strategy for this kind of girl is to be conscious of her time.  She will not want to go out dancing, or visit another bar with you because it means she’s giving up time to meet her next customer.  They are out there to shake their money makers, so just make a proposition.  Phnom Penh bar girls like these are happy to move fast and not too stickly about the price.  Most are happy enough with $20, having asked numerous girls of this type, they say that $15 is okay, and $20 is a fair price.  If she’s looking for more than this, she’s probably not taking all punters.

Phnom Penh Bar Girls

Surely there are lots more different types and sub-types of bar girls that could go in an article such as this.  Feel free to comment on them below if you have a type of bar girl the guys want to know about.  Hopefully this article has been useful and will help you to effectively navigate your way through the throngs of Phnom Penh bar girls you’ll encounter on your next evening on the town.

Do you enjoy our site?  Paypal donations from generous readers like you help keep this site up and running.  
`







Write your comment within 199 characters.

`
No space to comment on this post?
Click here to comment, and read comments, about types of Phnom Penh bar girls.